so upset just found out I'm having a baby shower next weekend and saw the list of ppl that got invited I don't talk to or like half of the ppl they invited that is why I told my family I didn't want a baby shower and if they did I wanted to be fully involved but noooo I hate surprises I'm so upset I really don't even want to show up I hate that they did this I'm very straight forward and let them know yet they still go around what I said someone please help me see the positive in this ugh 😑😠
RANT OVER
@lilbabyboy16, @ajaye25 thanks ladies and yes just more gifts for my baby I'll stay for the gifts and food lol
I hate surprises too! Hang in there for the gifts.
@pink805, Lol, yes! Keep your mind on just that"more things for baby".
@klove23, @jazzyjazz @candacelouise @mommyofroyalprincessdeila thanks ladies I think I got the key the more baby gifts the better lol I know they do it with the best of interest but oh god will I have to be nice that day and these hormones but play nice for a day and focus on the prize more thing for my baby boy lol
Just look forward to the gifts your baby will be blessed with..baby showers help a lot !...my sister n laws made me one with my partners fam ,which I don't like...was not looking forward to it..but hey baby girl got lots of gifts
@pink805, you sound exactly like me. I am so glad they didn't try n surprise me. Cause they don't realize that I wouldn't want 3/4 of my family there cause they haven't once asked how baby is doing my entire pregnancy. Good luck girl! Try to make the best of it. Just think, the more people the more baby stuff. And I hate being fake but play fake nice for one day! You can do it 🙌🏼 just keeping repeating more things for baby more things for baby. Lol
the positive is this an experience you'll never get back! maybe they just wanted to see if things cool go smoothly since it's all about you honey. Its going to be okay just look at like this it's for the baby and you want your baby to know it's family inside and out the womb.
One positive is that people are gonna shower you with gifts.. that you dont have to pay for, & because you dont like the invite list just think of the gifts lol
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Pretty depressed right now making a list of ppl to invite to my baby shower. I dont have anyone to invite. Just family and no friends. This is gonna be embarrassing af.
I'm so upset. I really wanted to have a baby shower but my doctors tell me that there's no point in it... :(
Hey I'm hoping for picture examples!
My 2 sisters and my mom are planning my baby shower.
But they want to know how many people I want to invite. How many people did you invite? How many showed? would you leave it the same?
Also they want to know if I have any ideas I want included. I have a few but nothing big.
Anyone want to share pictures of there baby shower?
We're having a girl but it can be a boys shower for examples
So my cousin is planning my baby shower in September and I'm debating if I want to invite certain family members because I don't want to be embarrassed
Lol! I agree with everyone, just smile and thank them for the gifts 👍🏽 The only time them being nosey pays off is when they bring you presents for the baby. Even ones you can exchange for store credit 😉