Seeing girls that have their SO or baby father there through the whole pregnancy and just so happy…

@britt16, your not alone, for the short time my ex aka baby's dad was around he was my only support and now I don't really have any, at times I still wish he was, especially since he promised me, but in my heart for some reason I knew I'd be doing it alone.

As soon as we found out that the baby was a girl he was pretty much done and didn't want anything else to do with me or the baby. @81516mommy2be

@britt16, I don't know why mine left and I'll never know, each te he cheated twice I found out on face book and he never gave me an answer as to why, he just said bye, and then it was contact me again and I'm filing papers against you, and denys its his son, and is now accusing me of sending some vid to his brother (which I didn't because ai dont even know his brother) and is trying to have me put in jail for it.

I went through my first pregnancy alone at 16. After he found out it was a boy he stopped talking to me. Had his 13 (when he was almost 18) year old gf threaten to push me down the stairs because she wanted his first kid. Then he showed up at my baby shower hungover. Then ignored me until i went into labor. Was there for the birth then ignored me. After 3 years he finally decided to be apart of his sons life. You're not alone. Its actually weird having someone with me this time around. & If hes not that great of a guy then its better for you especially at this time to not have him around because it screws you up for a really long time and your baby girl doesnt need all that stress.

His loss girlfriend ! You and your baby girl will be just fine without and it'll do nothing but make your bond stronger. As much as we want we can't make people be ready for the things we are. Hang in there !