So I had my gender scan done today, and found out we are expecting another baby boy. I didn't think I had any preference…
So I had my gender scan done today, and found out we are expecting another baby boy. I didn't think I had any preference as to what the sex was but when the tech told me it was a boy however, I had this feeling of devastation come over me, and it was all I could do not to cry in front of her. She showed me the butt shot after going over it for a split second and it didnt look like a boy to me. Could I be going through gender denial? I hate to even feel this way because I am over the moon that it is healthy and has all its body parts... and I am excited I love my son.. I'm just so not convinced and have been crying about it and don't know what to do 😳
Jaymie M·
Мама сына-младенца
I felt that way too when I learned it was a boy. I miscarried in 2014 and I really wanted a girl.
Venus·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'm kinda going through the same thing but mine is I want a boy so much that I'm 2nd guessing the ultrasound. I have 2 girls already and really want it to be a boy but it doesn't look like one to me
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
It's so hard to tell! I feel like if she would have spent like thirty more seconds there, maybe get another angle I could be cool with it cause I love my already son more than anything he's always been such an easy kid! ugh glad I'm not alone I've felt so bad about being sad about it :/ @babylove11416 @veenuusx3
Venus·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I think everyone says they don't care bout what the sex of the baby is which is true cause we love them no matter what but there's always a little part that has a preference. I almost cried when they told me my 2nd was a girl but I love no less for it
Venus·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I think everyone says they don't care bout what the sex of the baby is which is true cause we love them no matter what but there's always a little part that has a preference. I almost cried when they told me my 2nd was a girl but I love no less for it
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
@veenuusx3 exactly, I'll love it just the same but I swore up and down and everyone else thought it was a girl too and I just can't accept it lol idk why
Venus·
Мама двоих (младенец)
it's the hormones lol
Judine·
В ожидании первенца
@mamacodi_09n16, aww I'm so sorry sweety maybe you can get the 3d ultrasounds to get a better look
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I was looking into it but can't find any decent ones in the area.. I'm gonna talk to my ob tomorrow cause I have an appointment so maybe they can work with me or somethin lol @jujukiss
Riana·
That's definitely a boy! Conrad
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
Thank you @halsey11!
Lori 🍕·
it's a boy ! I was right, don't worry love you might feel devastation now. but once that baby is born it'll be amazing
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I'm starting to warm up to it, knowing Liam will have a little brother is so sweet to think about♡ now just to think of names lol @mrsmord
Lori 🍕·
@mamacodi_09n16 aww names shouldn't be too hard there's so many beautiful boy names !! and I think a boy after a boy is great .nothing in the world like brothers one after the other ! friendship for veer
Codi·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I'm pretty excited now :) I think just the initial shock of it all and everyone thinking it was a girl made me sad but now that I see how excited Liam is to be a big brother, no hint of jealousy at all helps a lot! I think we've decided on Ashton :) @mrsmord thank you for your kind words mama!♡
Lori 🍕·
adorable name ! anytime 🙂