Are there any mommies out there that hate having to go to the doctor or l&d when you have a toddler and your by yourself? My doc won't check to see if I'm dialating( he says it's not good for baby or me) even though I've been having what I'm pretty sure are contractions...just not constant...I lost two big chunks and a few smaller of my plug and have been getting the poops for the past 2-3 days. I told my husband when I go pick him up from work at 3:30 that I want to go in to get checked because I'm a bit worried...he insisted I go now with my three year old. But it's so hard even going to my doctor appointment with her I know it will just 32nd all bad...plus this way I can have him with me because I don't want to go alone. Is it wrong of me to wait for him and not want to go alone with my child or drop her off with GPA?