I need some advice! I just had my son a little over a month ago and I want to wait 5-10 years to have another baby. Is a age gap a bad thing?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
(Thread Closed) So this just happened. Deffinatly wasn't trying. Only been with my boyfriend almost 7 months. I already have a 4 year old son. Oh man. I'm shaking. Literally freaking out. 1 day before period.
I don't know If I want another baby. Raptor is 6 months old in 1 week. If we have another I want them really close in age (would like to be pregnant around the time he's 1) but I really don't know if I want to lose my 1 on 1 time with raptor. I love how our relationship is now. I get to spend all of my time with him. Give him all of my attention. And love it just being me and him. He's my best little buddy. I would be perfectly happy with just him, being able to spoil and give him 100% of me. But I also don't know if I would regret not having another :( uhhhhg I really just don't know if I want to lose what me and raptor have! I know I would love another baby but... Am I making any sense?! Haha sorry for the ramble ladies just thinking out loud (or via baby bump;))
