give yourselves a budget that you feel comfortable with spending. if you honestly feel that your family and friends will show up for you and are generous then it should be worth it. you really don't have to spend alot..

yes just for the company and celebrating your baby but also you should get a bunch of stuff from people that all adds up just stay on the cheap side do cake or cup cakes and punch and get your decorations from the dollar store or something online ebay