Is it wrong to get pregnant by someone you don't care for, only because you want a baby,…

it sounds wrong. I would wait for the perfect one for me to then get married and then have a baby and that's what I did. I wasn't even trying to find a husband or boyfriend at the time and things just fell into place. if you want one, wait til you find a husband. he'll be your other half and it wouldn't be as you being a single mom.

Thinking long-term I wouldn't put myself or my child in that situation. it wouldn't be healthy

I personally don't understand it but I don't think it's wrong as long as that person knows he's only a sperm doner. Also I think you're a little SOL if they want to be a part of the babies life and you don't care for them... Means you have to deal with them for the next 18 years even when you find someone you do want a family with.

yes. if that's the case then go to a sperm bank because once you have a child with someone else, and they want to be there in the baby's life, you have to include them. So its best to do it with someone you're with or care about, if you don't want to deal with someone then go to a sperm bank where you'll never have to deal with the father.

Yeah, do it anonymously. Easier for you and the baby. Just tell them you wanted then so bad you did it on your own. My sister is going to end up getting pregnant by her bf that she doesn't like just cause she thinks if she gets in a new relationship then it will be too long until they decide they want kids together.. I see it as nothing but disappointment and heartbreak for everyone involved. A kid isn't something to play around with

@babylove11416, @zyandi @kaidens_mommy @kelseys @kellyl22 that's also one thing I've been thinking, what if I want a relationship afterwards? It's hard to find a man that'll raise someone else's baby.

Although there's plenty of good men that would, I just think it'd be so much better to wait until your with the right one to start a family

exactly like @kaidens_mommy said. its not just that easy to get pregnant, you also need to think about the future of that baby and give it a family/father. just wait to find someone that you want to be with.

This kind of upsets me to read (not to be rude). As a fatherless child, since my dad took off before I was born, I have so many questions about the other half of me that I will never get to know. Wait until you're with the right person before getting pregnant, it's not easy raising a baby alone. I raised 3 alone before the love of my life came along and we have been together for 3 wonderful years. I would love to give hime a baby but I have 3 y/o twins and and a 5 y/o to focus on raising. So why not wait until you find mr. right to settle down with and happily raise a child?