(Disclaimer: this rant isn't 100% out of being upset with him, just thought I'd share because I'm…

(Disclaimer: this rant isn't 100% out of being upset with him, just thought I'd share because I'm sure I'm not the only one with a clueless SO lol) My child's father just baffles me sometimes lol. So he swears up and down that he gets what I'm going through and looks up symptoms and what I can and can't do and what can harm the baby and whatnot, apparently however he didn't get to the heavy lifting part of things that are ill-advised for pregnant women and asks if I ever moved the boxes out of my room that I told him weren't safe for me to move because they're hella heavy and I asked him if he'd help move them...2 MONTHS AGO!!! And he JUST YESTERDAY asks me about them. I tell him I've got it taken care of without going into a bunch of detail, and he says "oh how'd you do it? You did it by yourself? Who helped you?" Boy you didn't help me and don't have any plans on helping me move or pack so why are you worried about it?! He's been being really good lately but yesterday he was so damn annoying and clueless! And then had the nerve to say I wasn't taking my yeast infection symptoms as seriously as "other girls" because I hadn't yet gotten anything to treat it until yesterday, mind you these "other girls" he's referring to probably aren't pregnant and can and probably do use any and everything under the sun whereas I have not only myself to think about who's affected by my choices right now but a little person that's still developing and depends on my body for it's health and safety needs as it grows. I kindly send him trusted articles from time to time about these things but clearly he doesn't read them and just swears by the what to expect app's first article he sees instead of actually looking and researching legit relevant stuff smh.