so I been thinking.. my daughter is about to be 4 and I can count on both hands how many times…

I'm making my family wait.. i don't see anything wrong with it.

No one in my family has asked about my baby at all, let alone know how far along I am, I've contemplated just keeping them out of her life because if I have to force it upon them I don't see the reason. My baby will be loved anyways, my babies father already had 4 kids, so his family doesn't give a shit. Then my family is huge and I have over 20 nephews and nieces so no one really cares it's "just another baby" I can't believe I've heard that it broke my heart. I'm sorry about it too. I know it's hard and we want what's best for our children and we want them to be spoiled with love and affection by the ones we love but don't end up hurting yourself in the process 💕

this is my first pregnancy and I don't plan on posting any photos of the baby under 6months. I don't see the point come out and see the baby and have the experience if getting to know the little one your right

thank you.. my sister seems to feel differently and basically said I was selfish.. of course my siblings will get pictures.. its the other family that couldn't care less for my daughter or for this pregnancy for that matter.. my daughters pic was posted maybe 2 mins after birth and i was still getting checked for tearing by my dr... and from them til now they never bother to visit or even call/text/msg me to see how shes doing.. i don't want fake love for my children.. not a damn like on a picture.. i want them to come be apart of their lives.. if theu aren't interested then I'm not interested. @carolinegarnica18 @briezzy @dymond08

Sadly I know the family still wouldn't see my daughter so I'll probably just post anyways, that's all they need really because I don't necessarily want my children around people who could care less, let alone people on drugs. So I understand where you're coming from.@mommybug

I'd eventually post.. maybe a wk maybe a month idk.. but I'm sure they won't even bother to ask about baby.. probably only ask for a picture.. but thats it.. and my family lives near by.. furthest is maybe 20mins away by car.. its just my older sister thinks I'm being selfish "hiding him".. @briezzy

@mommybug, you're not Hiding him, you're making a point. That if they want to see him they need to make an effort.

@briezzy thank you.. at least it makes sense to someone other than me