has anyone recently been left by their husband out cheating or doing drugs and have kids and not know how to restart your life again going through divorce n custody battle rn this just happened to me and I need people who understand to talk with our 1yr anniversary was supposed to be on the 23rd and he left us yest I filed my divorce n custody papers court wed we been together 9yrs off and on and have 4 baby's and one coming July 16