brother in law offered to help me get a job with Chase it'll just be like a 45min train ride away…

do what u think is best...id go crazy if i didnt work for a while.

we in the same boat, my husband wants me to wait until a year to go back to work. We have goals so I don't see that happening

@mrs.rcleveland @peytonsmom22 with our first i stayed home for 1 yr.. and I was beyond ecstatic to go back to work bc I been working since 13 and not working drove me up the wall! I was planning to go back to work when baby boy is about 6 months and was thrilled when my BIL said he could get me in.. but SO thinks I should wait.. 😩 we also have goals and 2 babies aren't cheap.. so I feel like I'm suppose to be helping!! ugh idk what to do :(

my BIL is friends with like 10 different managers at chase branches all through bronx and Manhattan so he'll easily be able to get me in.. i feel like i should take advantage..

If you have help, then I say go back to work, we don't have that much help. Daycare in our area is 1500 hundred dollars a month

@peytonsmom22 daycare isn't cheap here either but we would able to get it done as long as I'm working.. i just have such a hard time trusting daycares 😕..

I think you should take it, it's hard to get a job at chase. Can he get me in as well, lol. @mommybug

lol you would have to work on the bronx first 😂.. i hate the bronx! 😕 @peytonsmom22

I say do what works for your family my plan is to stay home for six months until she is big enough for my husband to handle her while I work overnights and he works his regular time 8to5

@wafiyahd thats what i wad planning.. after 6 months we should know more or less what baby schedule is like and I could work with no problem.. but hes saying until school age that way we wouldnt have to leave ppl watching him.. i really dont know. 😕

@mommybug girl let's hope these kids allow us to work lol

@wafiyahd i sure hope so!