Don't mean to get personal on here but am curious if anyone else has gone through this:
Don't mean to get personal on here but am curious if anyone else has gone through this:
So, my baby daddy and I have been together 2 years. He's my other half but in the past, we've been to hell and back & we've both done things that should have never of lead us to stay together. Anyways, long story short, my family (who isn't fond of him) is trying to talk me into not giving our son his last name because legal reasoning if we were to ever split, ect. Of course I'm sitting here thinking fuck that. But like has anyone been thankful they didn't give the baby their fathers last name or is my fam crazyyyyy?
Chelsea·
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My mom gave us all her last name and honestly sometimes growing up I wished I had my dads last name. I spent a lot of time with my dads family (even though I didn't see him much until I was 15) and it was always kind of lonely being the odd one out at family reunions and everything. Not that they made me feel weird, they actually always called me by my dads but I still knew the truth. Ya know?
Meagan·
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im having trouble on last name too
Rockal·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Well my close girlfriend is actually going thru this right now, they're relationship was super rocky they've hurt each other... but I must say he has snaked her ass cold blooded with their son he's taken him twice and the police nor courts can do shit about it.. they got back together and it didn't work again so they dropped him off to school his first day last year and after she left he went back and took him.. once again the police did nothing, his ho ass had that birth certificate like a drivers license showing the law... long story short he's with someone else she's pregnant now my girlfriend pays child support... so you'll have to use your own judgment... it's a tuff one had me thinking... considering I'm with his brother....smh
Kristen·
I wish I hadnt given my kids their fathers last name, only bc he never sees them and doesnt help financially.
Kandice·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
I wish I would've listened my parents when I had my first. It easy to change the baby's last name if/when y'all got married. I wish I wouldn't have given her his last name cuz I hate being married now & having kids with different last names. I want them all to have my married name now.
Cassidy·
I mean I can see where they're coming from cause of course if worst came to worst, I would want my child fully protected and him to have as less leverage as possible when it comes to custody, ect. But then of course I wanna put all my eggs in one basket and have faith it'll work out and he'll be the best father possible. My big thing is I don't want a huge fight/scene at the hospital when it comes time for the birth certificate.