Ok so I'm so irritated, no one in my family came to my baby shower because my mom was training…

Ok so I'm so irritated, no one in my family came to my baby shower because my mom was training someone at her job and couldn't get the day off. They all planned on riding with her since its over 2 hrs away. So since she didnt come neither did my sister, cousin or grandma. It really hurt my feelings but I didnt say anything because I understand. But now they want me to drive down there for Mother's day during the week when shes off work,even though I am on bedrest and have No money because im not getting paid. When I told my mom this she said she would pay for my gas ok thanks but im still on bedrest and have 2 kids in school and a toddler. So now im selfish.