why do I keep thinking something bad is gonna happen to me and my baby at birth 😑 so annoying I keep…

Im the same 😪

It's fucking annoying @megsssimo I don't know why I'm so scared

Natural reaction I guess? Like when you first find out your pregnant and miscarriage is always a worry, those feelings just never go away they just develop xx

😑😢😢 it's so annoying coz all u wanna do is enjoy pregnancy but how? if all I keep thinking about is still birth @stacey804

Yeah the bad thoughts are always there, but the positive ones sometimes outweigh the negative ones. My family and oh family have had bad experiences with pregnancy, I feel so anxious xx

Yeah so had my oh his first partner had a still born at 6 7 months so I'm always thinking of it @stacey804

It worries you more when you know someone it's happened to doesnt it? My oh cousins wife had a stillborn on her due date :/ makes me feel so nervous, and I panic over every little change xx

awwww exactly I don't remember thinking of all this with my first @stacey804 but maybe I was just to young and an abortion wasn't a option coz I couldn't think of doing such a thing

Yeah, I have noticed younger girls do find it easier. I think the more life you've lived and people you've been around you start to hear stories and the worry really sets in xx

yea especially when my mw said I have risk factors so I'll be induced at 39 weeks @stacey804

It's easier said then done, but best to try and think positive. At least you will be getting monitored and getting the best care. Xx

Yeah thanks @stacey804

Oh my god I'm exactly the same @leanne2016 @megsssimo it's all I think about these days and I've had three successful deliveries in the past!! I don't remember being this nervous before. I'm hoping it passes cos I feel like I may have a panic attack when the thoughts creep in. I'm worried something may happen to me and il leave my family behind. 😟

Oh wow same as me @mich77 it's very annoying

deffo @leanne2016....I wonder why we do it...

It's weird I think us women we love being in control and labour/pregnancy is the only one we can't control @mich77

if we're never in control we always think of the worst @mich77

True @leanne2016

once I'm in labour il.be ok. it's just the waiting and wondering.....

I was exactly the same girls ...... absolutely terrified even though I had 2 previous healthy labours but for some reason always panicked, I just think it's a protective instinct we get as mums to protect and it's overwhelming!! don't worry to much you and baby will be absolutely fine hun @leanne2016

awwww thanks hun @mrsripper