I just need support right now. Me & my sons father just broke up today. I love him more then…

I can't say things will not be a struggle. Life always will be. But u always have us here. U have that baby. That needs u. Things will get better day by day. U have to keep pushing on. Life has a funny way of doing things.

@babybump98, I am so confused now. A single mom with 2 kids. I am terrified

I don't know the whole story but I myself have had issues with my man before. Once he was caught juggling me & his ex in the beginning and another time he was caught texting and entertaining some random female. It took a long time but I forgave him & moved on. He isn't perfect but that still isn't an excuse for what he did. But because of my anger toward him cause of what he did it just made our relationship worse and worse even though he always expressed how sorry he is. I asked for the truth and found it. Eventually one day I had to forgive and literally forget if I really wanted to work this out it wasn't easy and I made him prove to me a lot before I could make a decision. Sometimes people make some stupid mistakes but you guys should work it out. 2 kids who need you both more then ever. And if the love is still there is worth it to try and fix it

^that was wonderful advise! Hope things work out for you mommy & keep your head up. Baby feels all your emotions @rhebee

sweetie keep your chin up past those finals and keep smiling.... but pray and give it to God!

you never know what your truely have until it's gone. Don't know the full story but you both need to work on your self and what you want from the other person. no relationship is a walk in the park. I left my SO for two months (2 years into our relationship) to give him time to figure out if having a family was what he wanted. If it was what he wanted he needed to stop texting other females and asking for nudes behind my back. Whle I sit home with our son, he would be out with his friend who never ever is seen with his own son. Well when those two months were up the friend went bye bye (to this day that guy still never sees his son) and me and SO are completely committed! I never gave him a date of when I would return back with our son either. That is what hurt him the most; me saying I don't know if I wanted to be back. Even though we did not ever say we were broken up; but we were separated and it made him truely think about who he wanted in his life (me and our son or just our son).

You'll be fine :) I went through it with my now husband. He screwed up a lot the first 10 years we were together because he never learned how to grow up. I kept taking him back because I wanted more for our son. He finally grew up and realized what he had and we got married 5 years ago. We're now having another baby and though it's a struggle sometimes I know it was worth all the headache. Once he realizes what he lost he'll be back. Just focus on you and your kids and don't let him get to you. At the end of the day you gotta be strong for yourself and if he's not gonna be the man you fell in love with then your better off finding someone who will love you like you deserve to be loved!

Thank you to everyone who commented. The support on here is real.

@rhebee, Hang in their. Single moms rock!! They are strong and bueatiful. And they do what's right for their kids. I know u have the strength and the love for ur kids to do what's best for them even if that means being a single mom. Just don't give up.