I honestly cannot believe where my life has come to.

I'm in Japan visiting family I haven't seen in 3 years with my mom and 2 kids. Also 7 months pregnant.
This entire first week I've been gone I've watched our bank account dwindle down to barely anything as my boyfriend has gone out every fucking night blowing all of our rent money at the bar. He hasn't once returned a single phone call I've made or asked about our girls. One of my girls went to the hospital here for a severe eye infection in both eyes and he hasn't once asked how she's doing.

Then I get a phone call from his mom telling me he's been arrested for a DWI. The best part? It's his 4th one. I thought he had 2 prior but I guess one was reduced due to him being wrongfully pulled over and would show up as his 3rd only if he didn't get arrested again for the same charge. But now he has so it'll be his 4th one. Basically looking at prison time I'm sure. I refuse to pay his bail (not like I have the money anyway) and his family has decided
To not help him either but instead help me get on my feet with what I need as far as living, bills, and my kids.

I'm 6,000 miles away from home and I can't even enjoy my vacation because of this bullshit. And now when I get home, I have to deal with this. I could honestly strangle him at this point.