So here I am sleepless nights since my daughter was born now with my son. My daughter is 27+months,…

So here I am sleepless nights since my daughter was born now with my son.

My daughter is 27+months, her father got her used to sleeping in our bed with us during napping and at night.

during my pregnancy she slept with us as well. nightmare for me.

okay with that been said I wane her to start sleeping in her own bed before our son was born that did not happen bc her father said to let her sleep till the baby boy it's born.

our baby boy is 7+months and my daughter still sleeps in our queen size bed.

it's very hard for me to breastfeed my baby boy during the night bc i have to take him in to my bed and feed him. Witch means next to my daughter, i have to stay up and make sure I am fully awake bc if my daughter moves around she may hurt her brother. as soon as I am done breastfeeding baby boy for about 35-40min, my daughter it's ready for her bottle so i have to stay up till she is done.

I get scared to get up and use the bathroom forget about showering bc i am afraid that she may fall of the bed. yet her father doesn't wane her to cry I would rather hear her cry few nights than deal with her falling of our bed.

I am in desperate need of advice how to get my daughter off our bed?

she takes 2-3 hrs of nap time during the day witch means I sleep about 1hr during that time that's if baby boy sleeps as well.

than at night up till 1-2 even 3am. she has too much energy. in the morning she never wakes up before 11am, my schedule it's messed up.

plz mommy's I need advices how to deal with this???