So my son jus turned two months today., I feel like I have no bond with him π his crying don't even phase me. I love him with everything I jus feel so lost.. That I'm a horrible mom. Has anyone else gone thru this? Did anything help?
I felt that way with my daughter. I had a c section and we already had a girl and boy so chose not to find out. I felt horrible! I also had ppd pretty sever but this too shall pass. you're not a horrible mother. it happens a lot!
I went through this because I went into cardiac arrest after I had my daughter so my hubby took care of her constantly the first three months of her life. After that, she was only attached to him and not me. But I promise it does get better. She's still a daddy's girl but she's three now and she loves Mommy time as well. I cook better food and let her watch Little Einsteins when daddy isn't home ;) hahaha. Never too late to build a stronger bond with them. Work on yourself first then try to reevaluate the bond you have :)