I swear, I cannot wait till the day I never see my MIL again. This bitch is the true definition of…

Do you have to see her everyday or talk to her everyday?

@autumnsmomma125, I LIVE WITH HER!!!!!!!! And no, its not by choice. My husband is on probation(not getting into detail) but we can't live with him while he's on it(the kids, but I'm not leaving them alone somewhere just to live with him) so We pay rent for his apartment, while I stay here with the kids till either his Probation officer says the kids can live there or he's off, which ever comes first(January 2017). My husband just gives the excuse that she's not right, doctors say this and that, but I don't believe none of it, because she doesn't take meds for nothing she claims to have(bi polar and depression) she's just freaking crazy.

I don't get along with my mother in law at all I hate the bitch and I live with her

@nicole021995, they are the freaking devil! I hope you don't have to much longer because I feel your pain.

If she's that bad she should be on meds probably (I know it's not like you can change that) I'm sorry though :( I couldn't imagine living with my MIL. She's nice but I'd go crazy living there... That's a tough situation though... Maybe you and your husband should switch like you and the kids live in the apartment and him live with his mom?

Well the think is the lives with us she doesn't want to move out she has the excuse that she can't afford it and she has another son that is 17 years old and how is she going to maintain him and what not she works at a dam hospital I know she can afford it she's just a dam bitch

@autumnsmomma125, if we could switch we would've a long time ago because he knows how I feel but unfortunately my SIL and her daughter also live here so he can't stay, and we can't make them leave even tho they should(she doesn't work, just collects child support, 32yrs old, no school, just lazy)

@nicole021995, oh hell no! That's going to far, and she's a grown ass women that obviously can support herself. I can maybe understand if her son was younger but at 17, there really isn't much to maintain or support financially. I would tell her once the son is 18, she needs to go! If my MIL ever had to stay with us once we move out even if its for one night, I would make her night a living hell and hope that she'll never come back like she has done to me for no reason at all.

Oh :/ I'm sorry. Do you have any family you could stay with?

@autumnsmomma125, yes and no. My mom always reminds me that I can go back to her house, but I'd rather not. my mom isn't as crazy as this lady but then again she is, in a different way, with doing things behind my back on purpose, trying to take my children, talk about me, manipulate me, ect, anything for her own interests, not my children or mine. And she's with a drug dealer, and goes out all the time, not exactly the example I want around my kids. I would've left a long time ago if I had the chance, before I had gotten pregnant again this time, I was considering going back to work just to pay for my own apartment, but my husband said to just ride it out, it's temporary, and don't waist money on that when we can save for when we leave. it sucks but I hope it doesn't take that long till October or January

I'm sorry. Hopefully it'll end soon💕 if you ever need to talk or vent I'm here.

@autumnsmomma125, I hope so too! thank you.

Yw 💕

Oh me and my husband had got into fight because of her like a while back me and him where arguing and she just walked in the room without knocking and started screaming at me and shit then she told him it's either her or me so I ended up living the house cause she started crying and what not making him feel bad and then when I came back she told me she didn't want me here I told her well this is MY house you can leave she was all like well you had already left and I told her if any one should fucking leave is you she doesn't clean cook nothing and then she says I don't do shit I have to clean after my husband her son and her take the trash out feed 4 dogs and clean the restroom like really ugh yeah I have it hard

@nicole021995, I feel like slapping her for you lol. that's going to far and if that was me, she would've been out. my husband always says, when his mom disrespects me then she's doing it to him and vise versa with someone from my family doing it to him, and I see it that way too. that's YOUR house, and just because she gave birth your SO doesn't mean you guys owe her anything like a place to live. no mother should ever put her child in a place to pick and choose between anyone or anything. My husband already knows, I'm picking him over my family, why? because at the end of the day, he's the man I married, he's the man I have children with, the man I made a life with, no everyone else. your mil seriously needs to leave especially after that. and if she thinks just because her son didn't tell her to leave then call the police to send an officer over to escort her out, which you can do, she won't be in trouble or anything but you can have an officer there to keep the "peace" while doing something.

Girl I've tried so many things to get her out and I just give up cause of my husband he loves her so much and my mom came to stay since she lives in San Antonio and she came to visit and I told my mother in law that she needs to sleep with her 17 year old son so MY mom can be comfy and she went and told my husband that her brother is already getting old that she can't invade his space like that like bitch your invading MY space so my husband had to sleep in the living room so my mom can sleep in our room I got so pissed and then we got some stuff for the baby and we were building it in the living room and it was late and we were laughing and talking and she came and told us can y'all shut up I work tomorrow and I told her right in front of my husband if you don't like it you know where the door is she started crying again the reason she don't like me was because she wanted my husband to marry the girl he dated before witch is her best friends daughter how pathetic is that

@nicole021995, oh wow! I have no clue why my mil doesn't like me. my husband says its because my SIL doesn't like me because I make her look like a lazy pos(I clean this house, which isn't mine, cook sometimes, was working at 17, still worked while pregnant, and was going to school, while his sister sits in her room, doesn't work or school, has an 11yr old, does nothing!). Have you talked to your husband? because he needs to also consider how you feel! seriously, just put her stuff outside while she's at work or tell her and your husband if they don't like it then your husband can leave right along with her! there comes a time in life when we need to depart from our parents/siblings and start our own family(spouse and children), and he should realize that. He's the child and she's the mother, she shouldn't be living there unless she actually can't care for herself.

I've talked to him over a million times and every time I bring it up we just fight about it I already told him if she's not out by when the baby gets here his going to lose me and the baby

I just don't understand sometimes why Men stand by their mothers side for everything! my mil tries to pull the same crying, and hurt feelings over every little thing, tell my husband every little thing I do! I threw away one small cup of fruit because it was left out so it wasn't good anymore and she made a big deal to him that I'm waisting money and that I should've gave it to her, like bitch ask why I did it first before assuming I'm just being a spoild brat( which they always say because when I was with my mom, my step dad sells drugs so obviously we had money and I got what I wanted, but I do value the smallest of things even food) she seriously does need to be out when the baby comes, and that gives her enough time also to look for an apartment. if that was me, I would take newspaper ads of apartments for rent, or print them.from the computer and put them on the fridge, send her screenshots, just because I'm petty lol

Lol I tried showing her some apartments that are cheap and that are affordable but nope then she uses the excuse that she's sick and old like ok I know diabetes is bad but my mom and step dad have and my step dad is the only one that works maintains my mom and little brother that is 13 he pays the House that they buying the trucks 2 of them health insurance and well that's not cheap and he doesn't have papers so I know his mom can afford it working at a dam hospital oh yeah sometimes I'm cleaning the fridge and I throw stuff away and she gets mad like no bitch if you want to get food poison than you eat it but I'm not going to let my husband get it and like 4 days ago her friend came over and looked at my in a wrong way cause I was wearing really short shorts she even told me can you go but something else on or go to the room like ummmm no bitch this is my house and I told her no I'm cooking that age can go outside and then out of no where she comes in the kitchen with a box packing up food that I had just bought she was giving it to her friend cause her friend didn't have money for groceries I straight up told her you not Gigi g that food away I just bought it my husband works his ass of to provide that food for us for her to give it away she was like you need to stop being stingy God helps you more when you give to other people and I told her well I'm giving you a dam roof over your head and God hasn't giving me anything other than you she started crying and her friend was all like your so disrespectful and I told her get the hell out of my house and I didn't give her no food my husband was like you should've just let her take some food I was like no that's my food that I eat everyday I'm pregnant so I eat more he didn't say anything after but dam I was so mad

@nicole021995, I'm happy that you stick up for yourself tho. and that isn't yours or your husbands job to be giving food to anyone that inst in that house and tell her retarded ass to read a damn bible because that isn't true.Giving to others doesn't make God bless you more, he understands everyone's situation and if your in a situation to not give, which you cant, he isn't going to be mad at you and not bless you. he blesses you for you and what you do for yourself(self imporvment, prayer, repent sins, ect) not if you give or donate to others. give her and her friend a bible to read and God would be happy but giving material things doesn't make him happy. she's so dumb, and whenever she tries to use God against you, don't listen to her because she obviously doesn't know what she's talking about and if she was so concerned about God then she wouldn't be acting that way since God watches everything and even the bible says that our sons and daughters go away from them(parents) to make their own family, and she clearly doesn't accept that.