I HATE when people tell me " I did it by myself too because my bf worked". NO!! You had help!! You…

I HATE when people tell me " I did it by myself too because my bf worked". NO!! You had help!! You had someone that came home and you can hand the baby off to while you shower or slept or did whatever you needed to do. you have someone to share the responaiblities with! to give you moral support! doing it alone means it's all you 24/7. it means you might now be able to use the restroom because your baby is crying or staying up late just to get time to yourself. doing it alone means having to go back to work because guess who is paying EVERYTHING🙋! That's doing it alone. so do not dare come to me telling me you are having a hard time because you are doing it "alone".