@sarahmomma, don't let anyone tell you how to raise your kid and if you can stay as private as possible with your baby I made the mistake of letting people in very dramatic people and well the worst happened
Take everyone's advice lightly. You're mom and you'll know what to do. Dont be afraid to return/exchange gifts you get from your baby shower at any point. No use in keeping something around when you truly need something else. It's okay to complain about your pregnancy and feel like an emotional wreck. It's okay to walk away from your crying baby to give yourself a moment to breathe and regather before you go back to being mom. But overall, enjoy it. Even the moments in pregnancy and motherhood you hate, remember it. It really does go by so fast and next thing you know, you're celebrating your baby's first year. Congratulations ❤️❤️
Trust your instincts. Even if a doctor tells you something you don't agree with, go with your first mind. If your mom, cousins aunt grandma... Whoever says something that you don't agree with, do what you want as long as you feel it's best. But with that being said, don't be afraid to ask for help when needed because all of us moms need it once in a while. Make sure you take care of yourself so that you can better care for baby.