I'm feeling so down. My fiancé and I just tried to make love and he freaked out and stopped because…
I'm feeling so down. My fiancé and I just tried to make love and he freaked out and stopped because he could tell I was uncomfortable.. Which I was but it makes me feel so shitty.. I can't satisfy his needs and it tears me up. I just wish it didn't hurt so badly.. it makes me so mad. I just want to give him the world but I can't.
Rebekah·
В ожидании первенца
I know how you feel, I get the same way.. Sometimes just finding the right position makes it better though.
Bree·
Hey.. I felt the same way for a bit.. We went from going at it all the time to once or twice a week because I'm so uncomfortable.. I can't do a lot of the stuff I used to do with out putting pressure on my belly or back.. Probably TMI but try doggy style on the end of the bed & put pillows under your belly & head.. It's worked for us.. then if you have a free hand you know what to do with it while he is going to town.. Good luck..
Jordan Guss·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
We can only do it one when we do.. it the only way it doesn't hurt as badly. It's been this way my entire pregnancy. It's so unfair /: @mommyrichardson
Jordan Guss·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I couldn't do that even if I wanted too😞😞 it barley fits half way in without me being on horrid pain. My insides are super swollen it so tight.. I have no clue how my baby's head is going to fit through there! We have to do it with me on my back and him on his side with my legs spread as wide as possible for it to fit in easier. It sucks. @bree_55
Jordan Guss·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
He wouldn't even let me do that he was so upset. I hate it.. ughhh.. and if you read my comment above thats the only way I can take it. We've tried other ways and it feels like someone is shoving something with needles in me it's so painful. It's terribly unfair. @mcrowell0970
Bree·
@jorguss21, I'm sorry girl that's hard.. you are going to want to stretch it out with your fingers before you go in.. I read it online.. that's what we are going to do so I don't rip.. & I'm with @mcrowell0970 sometimes it's just as satisfying to see them get off..
Emily·
I totally understand why your upset. I've been the same way this whole pregnancy, we've only had sex maybe 4 times in 7 months because it hurts no matter what we try. I feel so bad for him! he doesn't let me do anything anymore because he's so worried. I finally got to give him a handjob today at least! it's the first of anything hes gotten in a couple months.
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
i getcha my fiance constantly askes me and i always turn him down cause it hurts i finally said okay the other day and he said he hurried cause he knew i was uncomfortable. it sucks