Ladies can I vent for a bit?
Well as im sure most of you know I'm expecting my first child. Im due in June and im so ready to meet her. Well for many years I never thought I would be able to have any kids. For some time I always told myself that it wasn't meant to be with whoever I was with at the time.
Well then i was like hell maybe i just cant have any kids. Obviously thats not the case!
Well yesterday I had my 4D ultrasound and for the first time in 8 months it finally hit me that Im gonna be a mother! Well it seems that feeling lasted only for a few hours cause im back to feeling like this is soooo unreal. I try to tell myself that it will all sink in once i have her in my arms, but even now trying to imagine it to make it seem real is getting hard.
Idk if it because ive been in the process of buying a house that i havent been able to completely enjoy this pregnancy. Or because for so long I never thought it would happen, that i cant believe its happening!
I think part of me is scared that something, idk what, is gonna happen and well.......
Please tell me im not crazy and these feelings will go away? Is it normal to feel this way and things change once the baby is born??
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this is my second and I feel the same way. I am horrified I won't feel the same way about this baby as I did with my first. I just give it to God and let Him control it.
I was similar but almost for the opposite reason. We decided to try and get pregnant almost just on a whim and I was shocked at how quickly I fell pregnant. That made it seem unreal because I hadn't really thought it through and when we decided to get pregnant, I thought it would take a lot longer than it did. I think it's normal to feel that way no matter what your circumstances, because you know your life is drastically going to change, but there's no way to know exactly what it will be like until you have the baby so it's hard to imagine
I really hope so ladies. I smile everytime I feel her kicking. but i hate feeling like this is all a dream
It's normal, I felt the same way for a little bit with my first, even after he was here it just felt like I was baby sitting. lol.
It's normal this is my third, but my youngest is 13 my oldest 16 and I still can't come to reality feels like it's not real to me maybe because I was set on two kids and I have my pair girl and boy but I'm sure once the baby comes that feeling will change 😊👶🏽🍼
I was kinda the same way. Never thought I would have kids, then I got a positive test. It didn't feel real to me until he was in my arms. I always thought something would go wrong & it didn't! You're not crazy & you're gonna be a great mom!
it is normal for you to feel this way, it will sink in more when she is here, my little boy is 2 now and I sometimes sit and think to myself 'I can't believe I'm a mum!' x
Why Are Many Women Unaware of Their Own Anatomy?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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so yes ima go hard in the comments bec...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Share your son's names ?
So im due in 8ish weeks with a little boy but we cant find a name that we both love so please ladies comment your boys' names ! I need some inspiration ??
I was pretty shocked with my first 2 that it took some time to feel attached to them, like even after they were born. I felt guilty for not feeling an immediate overwhelming bond I thought was supposed to be there! But I've heard it's normal, as is the guilt with it. It can take a while, there's no way around that! My first 2 are 5 and 6 now and I never even think about that initial feeling because now I find it hard to remember life without them. ❤️ And THAT is what matters.