blocked the first person ever before getting offended , she doesn't have a baby YET! And I hate…
blocked the first person ever before getting offended , she doesn't have a baby YET! And I hate people talking about things they have no experience with....I've Co slept and tended to all my babies needs for 6 months, she rarely ever cries because I'm right there so soothe her...of course that's what I'm going to do, lately it's been stressful for me because I am a single mom and I have no help, so Ill lay my daughter down to sleep at night and go into the living room and watch tv, two minutes later she's crying so I get up and tend to her til she falls back asleep, it's stressful to keep doing this when I just want to watch a show or relax but I do it..so my last post, I wasn't saying I wasn't going to tend to my daughters needs I was just wondering if people ever let their babies cry (which I don't) because honestly I can't sit there doing nothing and listen to my baby cry, that's not peaceful to me...so I get up and tend to her the second I hear her...I guess I'm just stressed out and wanted to know what other people do.. not to mention my sister keeps saying how her friend puts her baby in bed and let's him cry himself to sleep so makes me feel like I'm being judged if I don't do if or if I do....idk
Andrea M.·
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I'm sorry you're going through this :( don't let anyone put you down...♡ have you tried putting her into her crib or playpen and leaving some toys in there with her to keep her busy for a few? at 5 months little rattles and small stuffed toys kept her busy atleast for 30 min so I can relax
Jess 🕊·
1. Fuck her..... People on here stay having an opinion about shit they don't know about (I had a girl say I shouldn't call my man a bitch.... Listen it's joke... That's how I joke. He told me I was feeding my masters baby... Does that mean he thinks I'm a slave... It's our sense of humor which is why you shouldn't speak on things you don't know 😒..... Anyways lol) 2. I'm the same way with my son. His dad says let him cry a little and I'm like hell no and I pick him up. We co sleep so even if I hear a whimper I'm on it like white on rice but if you choose to let her cry it out a little that's no big deal. Crying it out isn't neglect (to a certain extent) as a single mom sometimes you need a moment to gather your thoughts. Trust me I know lol
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yea we play all day, she has tons of toys but idk I guess I just wish I had more time to myself maybe it sounds selfish but I feel like I just need one night to myself and I'll feel completely rejuvenated, a lot of ppl keep telling me I deserve it after six months but it never happens @myjulyprincesseli
Andrea M.·
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you definitely need time for yourself even if it's just to enjoy some silence.. a family member can't watch her for you? so u can get some time for yourself
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@jessica0830, you said it best, I honestly wouldn't let my daughter cry for more then 3 minutes lol I'm always right on it, I think im just stressed out and have gotten a lot of annoying ppl in my ear this last month about how I choose to parent when I was doing just fine before any of them said shit smh
BANNED·
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I don't really have any of my family here, I think the longest I've gone without her was for two hours because I went to the hospital after cutting myself while cooking...but she cries with anyone besides me...doesn't like ppl very much lol @myjulyprincesseli
Jess 🕊·
@supermom1104, it's annoying! Z is my second and I'm home with his all day until my daughter gets home from school. Ive had people tell me I post too many pictures of him and need to post more of my daughter so she doesn't get jealous. Ummm she's 4 she's not on FB and I'm home ALL DAY with Z so of course he has more photo opps lol. Don't let it get to you too much. Do what you need to do.
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Lmfao people are a trip, I just left my daughters father... we we're pretty toxic and I posted on fb that I didn't think he was mad I left with our daughter, I think he's mad at the way it makes him look towards other ppl smh and this girls like u need to keep this off fb and another girl told me I was childish and immature because I posted something about my child's father , I rarely ever do that idk how it makes me a bad mom lol @jessica0830 my fbs been cleaned out , I deleted so many ppl
Jess 🕊·
@supermom1104, all the extraness smh. And on stuff they know nothing about smh