@graysonsmama, Its like her mom treats her like shit, and doesnt ever do anything with her and choses her boyfriend over her children so I get that plays a roll, but then like its almost like she wants to play mommy to my child and me; no im 20 years old, I have more experience then you think, stop talking me to the way you do. I know it's going to be damn hard but I also know my baby is going to be my world and my main priority and she will never have to feel like I wasnt there because Ill make sure to spend time with her and give her that special attention and be there for her.. Just so overly frustrated now and I didnt mean to snap at her but like you cant keep putting me down and acting this child is yours; when shes not

@graysonsmama, Let me start by saying this shes 18, and doesnt have any other friends that really hang out with her or anything, so I think some of what she is saying is jealousy or worry that once this baby comes I wont be hanging out with her much. With that being said -- I was telling her about how when I was small my mom would take me to the library at least once a week, and then to the playground, and I loved it, and that I want to continue that with my daughter and get her into reading like my mom did with me. Well my friend instantly snaps back with "yeah well you will be a single mother and wont have a lot of time and on your days off youll be so tired you will just want to sleep and you dont even know if shes going to like books plus like your not your mom your mom had help" this was also following her statement of me saying I want to get her into a sport or something when shes older and my friend goes "why not get her into a instrument thats so much better" and listed a 100 reasons why.. So after her statements of how I shouldnt or why I couldnt do what I want with my child I said "How come everything Im saying you have to be so negative about?! This is MY child not yours or anyone else's I cant handle you being so negative!" She tried to change the subject.. And of course im super heated because she does this all the time about everything like she has to CONSTANTLY be right, so I just say there quietly on the phone and then she hung up.