I don't understand why he feel like he gotta lie to me about money? like my SO lies about dumb shit…

thats why i hold bank cards and know whats in the account bc i have the pw bc i swear they dont be thinking and money seems to go fast when in their hands i tell my bf that shit all the time u have to think about the next day not jus spend cuz u got it they crazy

just wow

@msvanessa27, trust me I'll get smart but its a shame I have to do that FML sick of being lied to about simple shit

@sparklymama, I am also lost for words

My husband just got paid and we have a joint bank account so I can look online and see what he's spending money on. I have my own personal bank account just incase for emergencies.

I'm just blown away because of where are your damn priorities boy? you have a pregnant woman at home with your child on the way newsflash you (talking about him) and her (you) both need to eat it's basic survival... no food equals starvation @greedypreggo970 at least have saved money for that if nothing else

I understand that, my husband is horrible with money. He literally blew at least 700-1000 on bullshit last month. I'm like wtf really that's money that could have gone to paying off the car, my 2000 deductible to have this baby or the savings. He's agreed that I can pull 1000 out of his account every month to put into a savings account bc he spends whatever he has.

I'm sorry your having to put up with such!