IDC how "selfish" I sound, but I'm not telling nobody but my man when I'm in active labor.. I don't…

Girl I've been feeling so bad because barely anyone knows my child is born. I know it's great to announce such a blessing but she wasn't home she was premature and even now when it was time to go home she has an issue Not many people have good thoughts for you. So I kept to my husband mainly she will be announced when I feel comfortable

Don't people will bug the shit out of you while your in the hospital

I was just about to write a status like this lol

"not many people have good thoughts for you" . That is the absolute truth .. and its said but some who don't are people you would never expect ! that is why any pictures on social media for me is a big no-no .. there's family that don't even talk to me dying to just see my princess and I'm not having it and I feel keeping it to myself and my man is the best.. I do not blame you for doing what you did .. if anything , I have more respect for you as a mother . so , good for you ! and god bless you 3 💕 @mimiz

@karnamarie, yeah that's the last thing I want ..@brionie31, great mommy minds think alike !

I refuse to even put her up on Facebook or send anyone pictures . Lol I don't care.

There's nothing!!!!!! Wrong with that at all!

@muvah.earthh,

oh my gosh! i feel the same exact way! my MIL keeps saying, " I can't wait to get that phone call to go to the hospital."

ummm no. no one is coming to hospital!! ✋

Thank you very much and that is very true idk what happened to family these times those are the worst and it saddens me but in the end we know what's best for baby

girl, that's me and you both .. all my fb friends are assed out if they think first thing I'm doing is posting her royal self of fb.@brionie31,

Yes. exactly how I feel. just me, my boyfriend, and our 2 son's, that's it. everyone else can wait!

does anyone have any recommendations on how to tell family that you wont be having visitors at the hospital????

@brittsimms, my MIL and mom says this daily and all I do is giggle because I have other plans.. like, I love you both, but this is extremely intimate and private between myself and significant other .. you both weren't needed to conceive, so the most I'd want from them both is respect and understanding from a mothers point of view. @mimiz exactly ! I completely agree.

I told my mom, and she was fine... completely understood. My MIL is a monster in law... I think we will just end up going in labor, won't tell anyone...and a week later be like " Hes here!! " She throws these little hissy fits to her son regularly. Everytime I go to the doctor, she wants me to report back to her. The one time I didn't, we got nasty text messages of her thinking something is wrong with her grandson, and we are keeping it from her ...

I just dont think she will be very understanding...and I really dont want ww3

oh no .. not good at all ; I hope the best for you and your soon to be family ! best of luck 💕 @brittsimms

lol thanks @muvah.earthh muvah.earthh I will be needing all the luck in the world with this lady 😏

I don't blame u at all my Sos family could care less when my baby is born they be talking all sort of crazy crap about me saying I don't need anymore children I'm like I don't pawn my kids off their with me twenty four seven we don't ever ask anyone for help buying the stuff they need I hate my in laws so bad and they let people that are clearly sick into their house I'm like nope they have the plague