in need to vent so hear it goes. our baby is due in 3 weeks we still dont live together he lives with his parents and so do i hes a hard worker and helps his parents with rent and bills he also has a horse i often fuss and put him down i guess for not being able to find us a place yet he says he dosent want us to stay at his parents house bcuz theirs already to much people in the home he says hes looking for a place but that hes only moving to a place if theirs space for his horse! he tells me to be patient. hes around and stuff but i just makes me mad and sad to see other couples living together and being able to experience evrything together and i cant have that . what do you you guys think ??am i over exaggerating what do you giys think i should do
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You aren't exaggerating I totally understand...during my first pregnancy my partner and I live with our family...I also would constantly want a place of our own to live in and was sad when is see other couples living together...I was still living with my family when I had my son (which was like 14 family members) when my son was 3 weeks old I moved in with my partner and his mom into a 1 bedroom apartment (we had the room) it was kinda hard not having our own space ,which was what I wanted just us 3 alone as a family.....my son is now 2 years old and we have our own lil place been here for a year now...so I totally understand what your feeling but all will come to place think positive 🙂
3 weeks is pretty close. && I understand you, it would be better with him around so ur not exaggerating . I live with my BF and it's a big help having him around. Tell him maybe he can find a place where the horse can be near by you guys so it can be easier
I say give him the time he needs. If it takes him time until after the baby is born than so be it. Your parents will be so much more help than he could ever be anyways because they just have an instinct to help, especially your mom. Be more supportive to him because he actually wants you to have a place other than with his parents. So many men would just say "fk it, let's just move in with our parents" but trust, you want your own space and it's SO great that he wants that for you two. I know its frustrating to wait but he will find you two a great place that you won't have to worry about family being around when things get hard and you guys have your differences. In the meantime, enjoy the support of your parents and embrace their help before you're out of the house and you can't just call your mom into room to watch the baby because you want to take a shower and your bf is at work 👍🏽