no baby shower for this momma bc I don't make my own money and my boyfriend doesn't think it's…

does he know that people bring gifts and diapers to baby showers?

aww :( I don't think I will have one either it's all up to my sister and Nina my Nina is for it my sister is kind of like eh. are you having a boy or girl?

@reeney, @goodbyelullaby yes. but he doesn't want to spend money on it. and I'm having a boy this time.

I'm not having one either...=( and it's my first baby. I live in Utah and most of my family is in California so it's pretty pointless....it just sucks because I don't get to do the same things a first time mom would normally do before the baby. all we can do is save save save and everything will be amazing once our little ones get here. =)

that's effd up

baby showers help out so much tho. it doesn't need to be anything big. just a light lunch, even with just a couple friends?

@lucyyxoxo_, he told me it's pointless and that I don't need to have one

I'm sorry. it must suck having to rely on someone else :/

@lucyyxoxo_, in a way. he usually doesn't mind me spending money. but I understand that we have other things that need to be paid before wants.

true. there's still time. anything can happen (: