I hate feeling like my fiancé is taking of us better than I can . Everytime I can't pay something he…
I hate feeling like my fiancé is taking of us better than I can . Everytime I can't pay something he offers and it makes me feel like shit because I feel like I should be able to
Tiffany·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
those are the things that are hard to let go of. When I became a stay at home mom it was hard and stressed me out but 6 years in and I'm okay with it now.
maina·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@tiffrae, it's a hard thing to deal wit I just feel like I'm not doing enough
Tiffany·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
if he's not complaining about things being done don't stress about it him helping you pay for things. That's what you call a partnership; some married couples don't even have that.
maina·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@tiffrae, yeah I know he's supportive and willing to help its just weird it's supposed to be 50/50
Tiffany·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
you might have to look at it differently like I do. Me and my SO do our 50/50 to keep ourselves balanced. he pays all bills and works full time. I tend to our child (2nd on the way) and do all house work and cooking. I might not make money to pay bills but I'm doing things he doesn't have to worry about doing ever.
maina·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@tiffrae, I work Monday - Saturday cook and clean the house and I still don't feel like it's enough