When will men realize if they do what we ask things will go smoother my fiancé knows I wanted to…

When will men realize if they do what we ask things will go smoother my fiancé knows I wanted to pack some more stuff and clean all clothes and comforters and wash all the dogs and clean cages and throw a couch away and of course he found something else to do which is not the house he is outside messing with a stupid 3 wheeler and he wonders why we are arguing whatever So tired of this every time he is off work he doesn't help me he does what he wants well I ain't gonna do shit either then forget it