I'm not ready to be a house wife yet. I'm not ready to get our own place with him yet. Is that bad?

nope whenever you're ready

I'll probably never be ready bcuz of the way he's acting

no that is completely fine. if u don't want to and ur not ready dont push yourself into it. me and my bf live together but only because my mom had kicked me out and i feel like it was forced and if i had it another way i would have stayed with my mom. we been living together for a year now and bout to have a baby and I've never cried so much in my life because i want a different life for myself i tell my so all the time i want more for myself then being his house wife. not that theres anything wrong with women who chose that lifestyle but it's just not for me so this has been really rough for me.

Yea. Are second kid will be here in a couple of weeks or so an we have no choice but to find our own place. The place we are living at now isn't big enough. We are loving with my mom, brother, an my sister an its a 3-4 bedroom an we have the biggest room. Its just not big enough for the 4 of us

I feel the same. Thanks for posting... Now I know I'm not alone thinking of this