RANT about some girl on my Facebook...
RANT about some girl on my Facebook...
She doesn't even have her own job, so who's really supporting her child? Cus I know it's not her directly... It can be extremely hard to be a full time parent AND have a good job that actually pays enough to live off of, not everyone is comfortable leaving their kid in day care with strangers or has lots of family that can help watch their child/ren. Also, there's lots of jobs that require an education - which also takes time and money which is hard to come by in lots of situations. She has some good points but overall this post is so ignorant and judgmental to me.
Also, she's a "recovering" drug addict who has a one year old son (with a drug addict) who has almost been taken away TWICE by DCF, and is already pregnant by ANOTHER "recovering" drug addict (which is also the 3rd guy she's been with since she's been pregnant with her first child - not including the father of her first child). But people who get state are the ones who disgust her 🤔 okay. Lol
Mimi·
I was pissed reading this I'm currently typing with my non dominant hand so I won't say much God is with me on this one 🤔
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@mimiz, she's the most ridiculous person on my newsfeed
Jes·
В ожидании первенца
Lol she sounds like a dimwit. How is she so dense? She makes it sound like just because you have kids the world gives you a million bucks to start raising them.
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@jesjeslovesyou, I'm saying! Like um. I receive state assistance bc I'm unable to work - & they are always giving me a hard time about SOMETHING. Like I'm just trying to feed myself thru my pregnancy, thanks.
Jes·
В ожидании первенца
She's so dense. If you're not able to understand the MANY situations that occur not only when having a child but when being a human, you realllyyyy shouldn't have kids at all.
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@jesjeslovesyou, she's such a hot mess she should be allowed to reproduce at all 🙄
Mimi·
I HAD to stop working due to complications I wish I knew her so I could let her know about her ignorance
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (38 нед.)
some people's financial situation changes. nothing is predictable. I'll just say a prayer that she never needs assistance. most people aren't proud of it but it's very reassuraning. alot can happen in 9 months of pregnancy and that doesn't make you a bad parent. my life was super secure 6 months ago and then my husband's job shut down and went bankrupt. he has to start all over. boom. we need assistance now and yup it feels awful but we didn't plan for this to happen. it's life.
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@mimiz exactly. I do know her & she knows I get assistance so either she's really insensitive or really fake (yeah I know I'm over here talking shit about her but whatever. This app is my pregnant lady bubble)
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@jamielynn07, exactly!!!!! God bless you & your family
Mimi·
She's ignorant
Desi·
Wow. Yeah, I have fibromyalgia and a pituitary tumor so I'm unable to work. Granted, I was also told I wouldn't be able to conceive naturally so this is a huge surprise for my family still! My husband works his ass off every day. Unfortunately he doesn't get paid for what he's worth, but he does what he can. People always judge as if they know the whole damn story. Ignorance is bliss. Best wishes to you and yours.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
She's just ignorant. That's all. Nothing wrong with reciving help from the state if you really need it