Ugh. I miss my SO:(. He and I are currently not talking. He put a lock on his phone because he said…

NO!! Umm my husband no matter what didn't put a lock on his phone after I looked that's sneaky 😤

no I agree completely with u why didn t he come home till 830?

That's what I'm saying!! He's sooooo fucking sneaky. And he's so good! This man will make you think you're the crazy one. He's showing me all of the things that I don't want in a man. I hate that I have to live with him😕. I'm tired of not knowing what he's up to. I just want to move so it's just me & my son 😞.

@mimiz,

@preciouslove, he works at a bar and said that he and his friends went out afterwards. He usually gets home around 3 but didn't even bother to call or tell me that he'd be out. I woke up at 5 because he wasn't there and called every damn hospital and police station around! Crying, not knowing wtf is happening. Waiting by the window until he finally showed up😞. It was miserable! But he doesn't think that warrants me going through his phone. I'm the bad one @preciouslove

Girl my man makes me think I'm crazy too but not anymore I ain't playing anymore especially now that my daughter is born

@jesjeslovesyou, I would have been livid! My husband put a lock on his phone once to for the same reason lol but I jus found it out they all want us to think we're crazy but it's them! lol

I was sooo pissed but more so hurt. Like how can you not think to even call me? He told me that one day if he "loves me enough" he'll stop having so many female friends too! Wtf. Why can't I just build my own damn man? Lmao😞😞

@preciouslove,

right @jesjeslovesyou I feel u on that lol if only we could! I'm sorry I pray things get better for u:(

This is inacceptable (sorry my english is not that good i'm french). You guys gonna have a family together. He need to stop acting like a child. Be sneaky with your girlfriend is not a good thing! My bf ain't crazy to even try that with me. I have all his passwords and he have mine. He did try it once tho and I almost kill him 😂 I told him the same thing that you did "Me and the baby or the phone" and he acted like he didn't care of losing me but when he saw that was serious he changed. You need to tell your man how you feel. If he can't understand that, then you need to leave because trust is everything and you are worth a lot more !

@txnivox, aww thank you so much mama! I needed to hear that for real. Your English is fine, by the way! Lol. You're brilliant. You know two great languages. I need to get like you😂. I feel like I'm in such shock right now. I'm not used to being treated so poorly. He literally chose his phone over me and his son. There's no compromising with him and there's no fear of losing me at all😞😞. He makes me feel like maybe it's just me. I'm so over it. I just need to focus on me and my son from this point on @txnivox

He's up to no good for sure smh sorry girl @jesjeslovesyou

@jesjeslovesyou, anw thank you 💕 and i'm so sad to hear that 😞 Your pregnancy is supposed to be filled with good memories and to be relaxing. It's hard but you need to do what's best for you and the baby because when he will be born you won't have time to deal with all that crap and you will need some support. And by the way it is not only you. Us ladies have good instincts. If you feel like something is wrong it's because most of the times there is and you can't ignore that !!!

sounds like the stuff my husband used to do. he would delete all his call logs and messages. but he would always say I'm being sneaky😒

Trust your instincts... I just had to put my ex out...because on top of many other things he recently put a lock on his phone...@jesjeslovesyou,

As soon as you're able you need to stack your money up and figure out how to be on your own. Until then, let him know you're serious about moving on. If he doesn't care about his family, that should make it easier for you to leave. If you can't bare it any longer in the meantime find a family member or friend you can stay with until you get on your feet. If my boyfriend EVER put a lock on his phone. Its over lol and that ass going on child support and since he didn't care enough to take it off and give me a good reason why he put it on there in the first place, it would just make it 100 times more easier for me to kick rocks on his ass. @jesjeslovesyou

My ex put a lock on his phone, I figured it out and found out he was talking to another woman. he eventually left me to go live with her in TX . leaving me to raise our 2 kids by myself.