since I already have a child, I'm scared about sharing my love for my next child. I know that sounds wrong and hateful.…
since I already have a child, I'm scared about sharing my love for my next child. I know that sounds wrong and hateful. but that's not what I mean. I mean how can I keep the love and attention equal? I don't want either of my children to think I love them any less. 😯
Jessi Jester·
Мама троих детей
- Every mamas fear darling. you'll do great ! (:
Kaitlyn·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)
@jesterr, thanks💕
Ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
Take an hour or so each day and spend with your oldest just the two of you
Steph·
Мама дочки (3 года)
I don't have two kids but I feel that they'll be going through different experiences; one will be a newborn, the other will be walking, one will be learning to crawl, the other will be learning to talk, etc. so you'll be able to give them the different attention they need without them feeling left out :)
Kaitlyn·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)
@ashley07, she's so used to it just being us all the time, I know she's a jealous baby, she's jealous of my niece. it just scares me.
Ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
It should help if you start a routine where you spend a certain amount of time with just her maybe playing in her room with her or taking her to the park something that's special to just her
Kaitlyn·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)
@ashley07, I go to school until around 3 everyday then It's usually just us home until 6 or 7 everyday.
Ashley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
Maybe try doing a night time routine while your getting her ready for bed that would be special to her idk if you read to her nightly but maybe try that or singing if you like to sing as well as her bath try a bubble bath or blowing bubbles while she plays in the water my daughter loves the bubbles
samantha·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
involve your other little as much as possible. my daughter is only two, so she doesnt understand what i mean when i say shes going to have a brother. but what my mom did with me and my siblings was when the other was napping, shed play with me or them or we'd watch a show or she'd make a special snack or do an activity.
but we'll figure out what to do when they arrive :) best of luck 💓💓
Marcia·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I have a 3 year old and he will meet his baby brother tomorrow I worry the same thing, I've cried and cried about it. The only thing I can do is make sure I spend time with him and involve him all the time so he doesn't feel left out. I'm a single mom so it sucks because I can't even have his dad help with it but I think we'll be fine, and so will you! @6215teenmom