Sometimes us as women forget that we are emotional creatures..men on the other hand lack in that…

Sometimes us as women forget that we are emotional creatures..men on the other hand lack in that department! Men like the idea of being in total control of their world and when it comes to a woman having their child some are ready to run away cause our ever changing hormonal mood swings can be scary as hell to them! In my opinions those are the cowards!! Men are natural born fixers and feel that we are too complex in our emotions to be fixed especially in such an emotional state!! It takes a strong man that will stand by you no matter what with love and emotional support! We just have to realize if he is Worth it...does he work his Ass off to support you financially!? Come home every night cook you dinner even after a 12 hour shift!? Does he make you feel safe!? Tells you he loves you everyday!? Tries his damnedest to be a good father partner to you and your kids!? A man that belittles you doesn't love you!! A man that cheats on you is seeking either greener pastures cause he feels your damaged goods from pregnancy change! We just have to start realizing we are strong woman we are strong enough to do it on our own..if our spouses for some reason go astray. There's so many benefits and help out there for women who feel their stuck in a situation with unloving, uncaring verbally abusive partners! If you feel your in a situation that is harmful to your children or yourself. Get help!!! Don't end up a victim to your emotions..remember if he is Worth it he will come to you! In the meantime if he is off in his own world not giving a hoot bout you or your kids and not doing his fatherly duties...my advice is go stay with family if you can ...who cares and can help! If he loves you and your kids he will get his act together...just don't give in too quickly ! Be sure he is doing what he needs to be doing otherwise you'll be stuck in the same situation! Trust me I have seen all these things happen and then some with friends and family that had terrible spouses! Some very tragic cases that I hope to never hear or see again! Woman are much stronger mentally than men...and if my own mom of 7 can do it on her own ....you can too! You just have to believe that within yourself👍 It's hard for me to read about disheartening post and not want to relay emotional support! I may not know it all but I do know I deserve better and we all should remember that! No man should validate us!