I've been having a rough third trimester, and it's making my husband really concerned for my health, which is very sweet... today I asked him what we could do to help lower his stress levels and he pointed at my belly and said "that thing just needs to get out of you already" and I'm not sure how I feel about this. I immediately corrected him and told him our son is not a thing, he is a baby. I feel bad getting uoset, because he doesn't get the bond of having a tiny human growing inside of you like I do, he doesn't understand what that's like, and that's not his fault. I know as soon as this baby is born I won't be the center of my husband's world anymore, and yeah that makes me kind of sad, but now I just want him to feel connected to our son like I do...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I don't have a baby boy. I would like to know personally how do you moms feel about people treating there sons like girls as in taking them to nail salons and getting pampered ect.... I think it's important for ladies to remember your not raising a little boy. At the end of the day your raising a man. If I have a son I just want to raise him to be the best man he can be. I won't treat him to the same things I would my daughter and vice versa.😕
Vent:
why doesn't my husband give me gifts or bring me treats? I see all these other ladies getting things like that and he doesn't do that for me! I'm kinda jealous!
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...