It's so hard not to spoil your kid esp being a FTM like I just always want to be looking at him or holding him enjoying these moments but I know it's not good to hold him so much already he sometimes will realize someone's not holding him and cry while in the bassinet sometimes he's fine and just sleeps but I don't want him to be dependent on being held or rocked to sleep 😩😒🙄🙆🏾💝