But it's my fault because I really think he will change for the sake of his child otw but NOPE!!!!!

people only change when the pain of the change is less than staying the same

or some people just won't ever change because they stuck in they own ways

i know how you feel my son 3 months and his dad and i were togther my whole pregnancy and now that he's been born he is never around.

smh @jaxonsmommy03 I'm sure I will be going through the same

thing when July gets here. But it's funny cause when he is around he doesn't do shit for me I been doing shit by myself this whole pregnancy yeah he's around but for what ?!?! I don't get nor understand guys smh

Give him time. I know it sounds crazy but in due time things will change. Men don't up & change, trust me I know... It's hard to read them but the change isn't easy for them wether it looks like they care or not. I promise.

@aa7iyah, girl if he hasn't changed yet after 8 whole years nigga won't ever change

@daedaee93, ik how that is. he was with me my whole pregnancy but i did everything myself. i worked the whole 9 months bought everything for my son while he sat on his ass. I never got any help from him and still till this day dont. he's only bought one pack of diapers since hes been born. I hope that everything works out for you, because I know how horrible he made me feel. especially for my son.

but I'm use to it nothing he does anymore phase me it's so expecting and yeah your dude sounds exactly like my bd @jaxonsmommy03

@daedaee93, stay strong momma. when your baby is here things will get better. my son made me realize his daddy wasn't worth my stress nor tears, because he's the only one that matters.

exactly that's how I already feel but thank you @jaxonsmommy03