I feel like a maid man I swear my husband never helps clean up or anything. I'm so frustrated with this.
Tell him you can't keep picking up after him, you're pregnant and he needs to start helping you out. You two are married and he needs to do his part, tell him you don't expect him to do everything but whenever he gets a chance and he's just sitting around and the kitchen is dirty then have him clean it or do dishes (just the little things) as a start and it'll help you out a lot. And tell him your mom isn't responsible for keeping your house clean. And when you two have your baby you don't want your baby to get sick and you also shouldn't be stressing your body out over getting things cleaned especially household cleaning products those could be harmful. (That's how my husband and I fixed things with the cleaning issue)
yes I have and he pretty much doesn't care, I have to normally call my mom to help me clean because I can't do it all by my self. but I just retarded to him and asked his to help and it caused a big fight and I explained to him I don't want him to do it all him self I just asked that if he comes across something that isn't in its place or needs to be cleaned to just help me with it and he started yelling.
Hm...have u tried to just leave the house messy for a little bit? It might start to bother him to the point where he cleans it up himself
I have and he catches an attitude every time ! @jessica1006 his mom did everything for him growing up so he's used to being picked up after hand and foot
My husband's the same way with our Buddy. It's so frustrating. Men are so lazy.
I had the same issue! Tell him you need help and talk to him about it! That's what I did and he's been helping out since :)
I'm not asking him to clean the whole house but a little help that's all.
we have two puppies also and Lord forbid him pick up after them or him self @polkadotcutie
they don't careee ! I jus make set days that I clean up instead so its not that much stress on me you should try that