My birther (mom) keep hinting around to watching my daughter over night but I am so not comfortable…

If ur not comfortable and u feel she would harm ur child ur not being a bitch but being a mom fuck what she thinks excuse the french

i wouldn't trust it then

Um, no girly. don't do it. trust your gut. if you have the slightest bit of doubt, dont.

@fifimama, thanks I was just making sure I wasn't tripping because people keep telling me people change and to give her a chance but I'm like my heart says no no no don't do it

I would never leave my child alone with her bid that's what she did to her own child

I wouldn't

@mama_icie, thanks I'll follow my first mind...Yeah she did some cruel stuff to me

@polkadotcutie, thanks and I have a lot of doubt I'm not going to do it plus she's too young to tell me if she hurt her

if it wasnt safe for you then it aint safe for the babies now

exactly. don't worry about her being upset about it. she'll get over it but if she did something to your child you would never be able to forgive yourself.

@chichi1975, my first mind exactly she beat me her boyfriend raped me when I was little and she let him walk away Scott free she's sent me to the hospital so many times throughout my childhood pushing me down the steps,watching me have asthma attacks and not doing nothing until I passed out whipping me naked while her boyfriend held me down and until she drew blood I can go on but I'm getting emotional so I'm not

My heart breaks that you even had to endure that period!!! I would not even feel comfortable her being in my child's life even when not alone!!! You are one strong woman don't give into her@mommyagain

@mama_icie, Yeah you're right about that

@polkadotcutie, you are so right and plus I'd probably lose my freedom because I'd hurt her bad over my child like as in murder she did it to me but I'll be dammed if I ever let her do my children like that. What she did is forever sketched in my brain my memory and it will never go away

@chichi1975, Yeah you're right about that and she's barely around anyways because she's mad I didn't call her when I had her I didn't feel a need to have her present and she wasn't even around my entire pregnancy and do you know when I called her and told her the baby was here she hung up on me because she likes to run the show

Prayers and hugs stay strong you don't need that drama in your life@mommyagain

I understand completely. I was abused as a child as well. It's a terrible way to grow up. Just do for your baby what you would have wanted done for yourself as a child. Don't let her be the source of your child's pain like she was with yours. Break the cycle girly.

@chichi1975, thanks love I really don't I try to stay away from her and drama I'm trying to get my new baby girl here healthy and safe with no stress or worries. I appreciate you

@polkadotcutie, Yes! you are speaking to my soul right now! I do dare to be different and I AM GOING TO BREAK THE CYCLE! I appreciate the advice and kind words for real especially coming from someone who's been through it as well

I'll be thinking of you 😊@mommyagain you just worry about your daughter not her

@chichi1975, ok love lol I will

If you need to vent I'm here@mommyagain

@chichi1975, be looking for me because I have days!

I'm happy to hear that some people never make it out of that place and end up losing themselves. No problem girly I'm here if you need a friend that understands.

@polkadotcutie, Well consider yourself one friend up

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