it just depends on how in tune you are with your body and how much the baby moves. I felt my daughter for the first time at 11 weeks super super early, but it was definitely her, by 14 weeks I had her kicks on camera, tiny little kicks, now at 20 weeks my little acrobat never stops moving, I can tell they are getting progressively stronger but since she's still so small it's still tiny movements, it's hard to describe the feeling, it's kinda like someone flicking you from inside your tummy
The bigger the baby gets, the stronger the kicks and hits. I don't notice big change in movements and hits on a weekly bases but if I think back at 23 weeks till now, my son is definitely moving more and I feel everything.
I felt kicks starting at 17 weeks and could physically see them at 19, got my first one on video at 20 weeks. everyone is different though. people told me I wouldn't feel them until I was like 20 weeks because I'm a FTM but when they seen that I actually had gotten one on video, they started believing that I felt him earlier like I had said
I didn't really feel him kick harder until 22wks, and 26wks is when I consistently feel him kick alllll the time! Everyone is different but it will come sooner than you know.