He kinda knows it. And even he's been yelling at her more lately because she's been acting up and not following the rules worse now than ever. I would feel better if she came for alittle but maybe not stayed the whole time maybe. I do love her and it's not like I don't want her there to share the experience with me. I involve her in everything already as much as I can. My sister who planned the shower said we shouldn't really have kids at all when I braught it up because she's having adult games and it'll just be easier for everyone. But I know a lot of my invites have children and it might be hard for them to come without them @alana_sunshine

She's 4. I know it looks selfish but if you were here with us. She just doesn't get the concept yet and it's going to be hard to have to watch her there. Basically everything I open she's going to take and claim lol. She's already opened up some bottles for her dolls that we asked her not to. I can only take so much and it's really not my business to punish her because she's not my child. And I still feel weird trying to so she just walks all over me right now. It takes her a while to adjust when she's back and forth from her moms to our house so she's really acting up more than normal. @alana_sunshine @sarahology

Yeah I agree.. It looks pretty selfish.. How old is she ?

' Well Your Best Bet Is Too Take Your Chances &&' Say How You Feel...Besides It Is Your Day For You &&' Your Child

Yeah it's the Sunday she's suppose to go home for three days. We have her three days on, three days off. But my showers at 1 and she leaves at 4 so o feel like my SOs mom has no choice but to bring her because he's working and I highly doubt her mother will take her earlier. I want to tell them how I feel but Idn if they'll think I'm being a bitch. I already involve her so much. I just need my own space for one day @zarimom1

' Oh Okay Well That's Reasonable...Just Have Her Stay With Her Mom Or Something The Weekend Of Your Shower

She's just too excited and she acts up and I feel like it'll be too much for her and I don't have any time to celebrate anything because we're trying to calm her down and let her do everything. Like putting the crib up and stuff and she'll already be right there when I bring all the stuff home. I explained to her that it's her baby brothers things, they're not her dolls clothes and stuff but she just has to have everything her way@zarimom1

' Why Can't She Come &&' It Still Be About Y'all .?!