So.. My baby's dad and I were never together. It was a one time thing that ended up with me being…
So.. My baby's dad and I were never together. It was a one time thing that ended up with me being pregnant lol but anyways, when I told him I was pregnant he wanted nothing to do with it at all, tried getting me to have an abortion and said didn't want anyone to know about it. So I just didn't text him anymore or bother with it. Lately he's been texting me asking how I am & how the baby is & wanting to see ultrasound pictures. But then he brings up child support, and practically begs me not to make him pay it. He still hasn't even told his family about the baby. Should I go after him for child support? Or should I just cut him out of my life completely and not communicate with him?
missing154user·
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I say both but I'm just seeing your situation as an outsider. It's not nice to just jump in and want to know what's going on this late in the game, especially if he hasn't told anyone. Do you want him there is the question?
Akierra·
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' Both, Seems Like He Really Just Acting Concerned So He Doesn't Be Put On Child Support
Jordyn💋·
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Personally, unless I needed the money I would cut him out completely unless I wanted him there.
missing268user·
personally I say have him sign over his rights and if he wont then get him for child support either he helps or he doesn't at all
Vanessa·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
thats why he checking on you he dont want to pay that cs if u decide to go after it some dudes be thinking they slick...but u did not make that baby by ur self idc if it was 2 mins that yall were together he knew what he was doing when he pulled that weenie out.so bam baby coming step up
Crystal·
Многодетная мама (6 детей), беременна
I would make him pay, he helped create that life. Put it in a savings account for baby when they turn 18!!!
Heidi·
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If he really is that concerned I'd say ok, this baby is gonna take money to raise and provide for. Either u pay me a set amount per month for baby's expenses, or I can have child support decide that amount and it gets taken direct out your checks until baby's 18, his choice.... He created a life u didn't make your baby by urself u shouldn't have to provide for it by urself.
Heidi·
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If he's not willing to pay even as little as $100 a month, u know what to do, cuz child support gone get him for more than that... Here the thing tho if he paying he gets rights. If he's not paying he doesn't get any rights to his baby so if u want nothing to do with him he might as well sign over his rights & let y'all go seperate ways .
Cassidy·
Have him sign his rights over if he honestly doesn't want anything to do with the both of you. There shouldn't be any hesitation. But if there is or he won't, take advantage of child support.
milan lang·
Мама дочки-младенца
i agree with @heidi3581
Taiylor·
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Thank you guys! I'll probably see if he will sign his rights away.. And if he doesn't then ask to set up payments and if he refuses to do that then child support it is. He has to take responsibility
Ash·
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Hit him with the child support!! Any man who does the deed but can't man up is a scum bag that deserves to get hit with the payments