So I called in to work today because I felt miserable and yet still did house work and cleaned up…
So I called in to work today because I felt miserable and yet still did house work and cleaned up our room. Then I do the dishes that I didn't even dirty because my MIL complains that I never do anything. And then what do I get? Gripped at because I have our air conditioner on because it is so freaking hot in our room. She says that now it is cool outside I can at least save some of their electric bill. Like really, I have been dying of heat stroke all day and our air conditioner barely works at all and you want to tell me to turn it off. We rent their back room for 2400 a year and we both work (me and my fiancé), me two jobs and him three, trying to save up for a house. I hardly ever call in unless I am very sick. Cut me some slack. Just because you work 12 hrs a day only like 2 days a week as a nurse and you worked until you went into labor does not mean that you can treat me and your son like we never do anything.
Sorry, rant over.
Jessica Powe·
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I'm sorry!! I hope it all works out for you and you two get your own place! I somewhat understand what ur going through bc my hubby and I both work minimum wage jobs (im 20 and he's 22) and we pay $1000 a month for rent and I just quit my job last weekend to have my baby tmrw and my MIL is the same way! She tells me about how she worked until she had her kids and how she didn't need an epidural bc she was strong and she toughed it out and she even called me and yelled at me and threatened to call the cops bc apparently In her mind I wasn't taking care of myself when I told her I couldn't feel the baby kick when I was 18 weeks (when my dr said it was normal he just might be a bit smaller). But I hope everything works out for you and take care of yourself first! You're pregnant! 😊
Sierra·
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thank you. yeah she talks about how there wasnt epidurals when she was pregnant. its annoying i do a lot for this family and never get recognized for it by her. @jessica1006
Jessica Powe·
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Just ignore it! That's what I've been doing and hey it's your pregnancy not hers! Every pregnancy is different and she can talk about her pregnancy all she wants but in the end it's your baby not hers. And if she can't appreciate the things you do for her then don't bother doing anything for her or talk to her about it and tell her how you feel, if she still doesn't appreciate it then I'd just forget about doing anything for her. Don't stress yourself out when it comes to her! I feel like that's how all MILs are tbh lol
Sierra·
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yeah lol. im just glad my fiancé sees what i do for them. he constantly tells me he loves me and that im so sweet. he makes me so happy.