I agree with others comments. Do what you think is best. I almost gave up too and thought someone could give my baby better but never love him like I could. Mine was hormones. I'm over it now and couldn't imagine not having him. I was very worried of twins myself as having 2 sets in my immediate family (brother and sister being one). I don't know how I would've managed but we would have.

@journeytobaby, amen

Look into Wic as well as food stamps

God will provide. He allowed you to conceive your baby( or babies) and will guide you through everything to make sure that everything works out so that you can raise them. He will not let you fail. Just have faith

My husband and I are in the same boat we were not prepared to hear twins. But we are going to do whatever it takes to make sure our babies are healthy happy and provided for. We never thought about adoption we could never give up our babies. Look into gov aid and food stamps and other options. That way you can keep your babies and provide for them the best you can. Keep your head up. I know how scary it can be to expect one and get two! If you really really want it you guys can do it! Anything is possible as long as you work together and keep your eyes on the prizes!

Well its not that we spend too much its just hard to save money because we're also trying to save for a new place to live.

agreed with @mommylife2three. He will provide for you and your little family. Just remember that there are sooo many ways you can get help. I don't know how supportive your families are, but with first babies you get so much from your baby shower and knowing that you're having twins, people will be even more willing to help. Not to mention, there's WIC that will help with things like milk, eggs, cereal, and even formula when the babies are born... And if you guys qualify there's always food stamps and Medicaid. You've got this, momma. It's not going to be easy, but it will be well worth it. Just give him a couple days while you look into options as far as financial assistance and then come back to him and show him what is available to you guys. I'm always here for support if you need to talk, you can private message me.

Our families wanted us to do the same thing I can't live with the thought of someone else getting to love, play, and raise my child especially after I spent all the work carrying them. I rather work several jobs to help provide than give my boys up.

I literally just had to have a talk with my so about his frequent spending lately. Smh he got offended because I told him to remember we are having a baby. So I know how you feel. You guys just have to get together and set a budget and try to see what you guys can do without.

Don't give up your babies just try and budget better maybe I'm sry your going thru this I couldn't imagine... What's making you high risk of you don't mind me asking?

if God brings you to it he will bring you through it. Rely on him he knows what's going to happen tomorrow , next nine months and five years from now. y'all are stronger than you think(:

you are single, the government can help. I'd look into all options and make sure it's your decision not his @firsttimemomoftwins

@graysonsmama, I dont think i could give mine up either. I know that somebody with more money could get them more things but i feel like nobody could love them as much as i do. I dont want to struggle but i dont want to let them go.

That's a tough decision. Can I just say that if they are put up for adoption they could be separated and that could majorly affect them later in life. The system is messed up. Many children are neglected amongst other things when in foster care. Try to get some government assistance.