I just have to rant for a minute, since I don't tell people in my family or friends...... I feel…
I just have to rant for a minute, since I don't tell people in my family or friends...... I feel like the relationship I am in with my baby's dad is all for show. I'll let y'all know (not many people know, because it's embarrassing for me) me and my boyfriend have pretty much only been together for as long as I have been pregnant. It was kinda a drunk night gone wrong. (I don't regret my baby though). We dated maybe a month n a half before I found out I was pregnant. I feel like the only reason he is really with me though is because I am pregnant with his child. I feel like sometimes he might really love me, but other times I just feel like I'm just there in his life. Yes, I've grown to care and love this man. But, I will never get the opportunity to actually have a normal relationship with him due to the fact of the baby. I feel like everything a relationship is suppose to be, isn't here. I will never really know if he loves me for me, or if it's just because I'm the mother to his first born child. It scares the hell out of me. I know id be a wonderful single mom, but I'm terrified to do this alone. I go days on in, stressing myself about this even though I know I can't change anything. I just wish I really truly knew how he felt. (And yes I've asked him, I just feel like he lies or tells me a story to jump to another subject). I just want my baby boy to have a happy healthy childhood life. Regardless if his dad and I are together.... Thanks in advance to anyone who reads this. I just need a listening ear sometimes, and I'm not use to blasting personal stuff on an app like this.
Mimi·
Honestly you're a beautiful girl I have no clue what your personality is like but if as beautiful on the inside as the outside you're fine. I don't know what goes on at home you guys do look happy and I didn't see that he looked any kind of unhappy to be with you unless he acts this way I wouldn't worry. My husband and I been together literally since the sag we slept together to be blunt. No space no nothing we became clingy 6 months into it we got pregnant lost a baby and got married 2 months later I thought it would be normal we would work things out but the Tuesday after our Saturday wedding I found out I was pregnant again and here we are with a beautiful daughter
Kaitlin·
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I'm the same way with my boyfriend. We started dating August 28th and I found out I was pregnant October 7th. We do not regret our baby girl but we have a hard time connecting with each other most of the time and we're both working really hard to make it work for our daughter but sometimes staying with someone you can't connect with or even love (depending on your situation) is not better for your child in the long run. Your baby is gonna base all his or her future relationships off of the ones they see you in.
Lindsey·
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I got pregnant the first time me and my child's sperm doner slept together and things didn't work out between us because he liked to play games needless to say I haven't talked to him since I was 13 weeks pregnant
Danya·
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I got pregnant the same night I went on a date with this guy (classy right? we talked for awhile before but when we met passion took control). We argued after, we fought, we both agreed we should of been more careful, we both disagreed on A LOT. However, after some space, we go back together and decided silently to each other that we wanted to work things out together to see where things go (despite me being pregnant). I think we got back together because of the baby but then we got to know each other more so things kind of shifted. We spent time with each other everyday (almost). We didn't talk much about the baby. We bonded a lot over are common feeling of stress and being there for each other when we didn't want to be alone. We get along great but with his work (marine, in Arizona for training, soon to deploy) and everything on my end has put a strain on things. The lack of communication has been hard. Yet, we're still there for one another. He wants to be apart of everything but he knows it will be hard so he just distances himself from not only me but the baby to avoid feeling sad. But he'll have moments where our daughter is all he wants to talk about. Idk where we stand. He doesn't either. Obviously complicated. We're not in a relationship but we're there for each other, even if we argue. Not sure where things will go but because of how things have been (him being gone due to marines and such) I'm not afraid to be alone especially since I pretty much have been (not necessarily his fault). I want us to be a family so who knows once she's here but like you I don't him with me because of our daughter. Just focus on you and your LO. You're already so strong just know that no matter what happens you can do it and you're not alone. ❤️
Erica·
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@cheerbigk, @lynna0909 @mimiz @sweetpea_nut thank you all for sharing that personal thing with me, happy to know I'm not alone in this. God bless all of y'all and I hope nothing but the best for you all and your family's