Sometimes I really hate my SO. He just got. job 2 months ago after being unemployed for 6 months…
Sometimes I really hate my SO. He just got. job 2 months ago after being unemployed for 6 months while I supported us. I'm now 8.5 months pregnant and my hours have been cut at work so he tells me I don't want to financially contribute to the family. Yet he only works part time and won't find more work but it's my fault. When I call him out on his BS all he can do is shift the blame to me. I'm so fed up. Like I don't even know if we will be able to make it once the baby is born but he takes no initiative to get a full time job. I'm tired and miserable but he expects me to work 60 hours a week until my water breaks while he skates by. I'm like so done. I'm frustrated, stressed and I just don't know what to do.
jjmom12345678·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
What does he need that he can't help contribute cause I know u didn't climb on top and get urself pregnant
missing154user·
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Exactly. Like I'm sorry I'm slowing down and not feeling well I have 6 freaking weeks left. Kudos to the women that work until their due date. I stand on my feet all day. If I had an office job I'd have no problem being there until then. He just doesn't understand and thinks I'm faking my symptoms to get out of working. All it does it start arguments when I tell him he needs to get more of a job. Like isn't that what the man is supposed to do? Want to provide for his family more than his woman? Maybe I'm sexist and old fashioned. He doesn't do anything for me. Hes just lazy and selfish. I think he doesnt take any of this seriously, like you shouldve been looking for more work months ago, not 6 weeks before im due. He will do it when its too late. Even when I'm not feeling well and had strep throat this past week I still made him dinner. I just feel like I get no appreciation for anything I do. I just want to sit and cry. @jjmom12345678
Honora·
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I am so sorry that you're going thru this. men are so ignorant to the things we go thru while carrying a child. He should definitely be appreciative and kick his ass into high gear. He should be ashamed of himself and feel like less of a man.
jjmom12345678·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I wouldn't be having none of that I did that with my second baby but first with my now SO and it killed he needs to man up and have a big reality check the man is suppose to be taking care of u not the other way around
missing154user·
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Thank you for understanding. He then tells me I'm just being too dramatic. Men just don't get it. I see others post about how wonderful their SO is and what all they do for their SO and it just hurts. I'm a big girl I don't need to be taken care of but I shouldn't have to take care of him. If I'm lucky I'll get just a few weeks off of work and have to return by 4 weeks since he won't get another job and my work only allows 4 weeks. I just feel like the world is against me. @noramichelle @jjmom12345678
jjmom12345678·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Surprisingly my SO is been really good about me pulling muscles in my vagina and hasn't been complaining about not keeping the housework up but it's needs to step up for sure
emily·
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That's horrible. I'm so incredibly sorry that he is treating you like that. You're super pregnant, the fact that he is expecting you to work 60 hour weeks like you did before being pregnant is nuts! I think he is being very selfish. He helped you make the baby so he should suck it up and support you!! 😞