Okay ladies i need some advice.
Okay ladies i need some advice.
Im having a hard time deciding what i should do. Ive already come tp the conclusion that i dont wanna be with my bd ( he's to immature, disregards my emotions, cant keep a job, and runs around all the time) and on top of all that i found out he's been talking to girls on dating sites. Which I could care less about because I dont wanna be with him at this point anyways buuut my problem is we live together and although i dont wanna be with him I want to keep my apartment (everything in it is mine and its in my name) however he's the one whose supposed to pay rent when its due this time around I have a job lined up but i wouldn't get payed until waaay after the due date I dont want to put him out because ill loose my place and have a hard time getting another one in the future but i also dont wanna be tied to him anymore what can i do ? or should I do? I need help
Kimberly·
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I would keep him around to pay the rent and then kick him to the curb. I'd say he at least owes you that much.
shakala·
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Yeah thats exactly what i was thinking of doing tbh but the thing is he's so unreliable its still a possibly of loosing my place. And thats what really has me stressing @carterclaytonb
Kimberly·
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Have you tried churches or state assistance? Some times they can give emergency help with rent.
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He is definitely going to pay the rent next time? Or he's not sure he has the money?
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Any family or friends can help you?
shakala·
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@carterclaytonb, I dont qualify for cash assistance in my state but I haven't tried churches or anything like that i honestly dont even know how to go about doing that.. @mamaash well he's the one with job as of rn and he knows rent being paid is dependent on him but the reason i say theres still a possibility is because recently he's been slacking on going in ..
shakala·
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@mamaash, I have my mom but i doubt she could pay her rent & bills + mine ..
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As awkward as it would be maybe break it off with him and just sorta be likeroommates until you're settled and thennnnn have him move out once he's found a place.
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Cause I believe you said he's the father to your child and he should still pay rent bc of that.
shakala·
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@mamaash, yeah thats probably what it'll have to come too.. and yes he's the father of my baby but idk he does questionable things ill see how it goes after I let him know and take it from there.. thanks
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Okay but good luck! I hope things turn out well for you!
shakala·
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@mamaash, thank you