I feel like society has made it to where dad's (or SO's) feel like they aren't important or as…
I feel like society has made it to where dad's (or SO's) feel like they aren't important or as important in a relationship when their wife/girlfriend is pregnant.. Like yes, a woman has SO MUCH on her during pregnancy... but what about dad's? I was talking about how exhausted I was to Jonathan and how I wanted to wake him up last night to talk and kiss and cuddle.. Let me just say that I have an amazing fiance.. he works his ass off every week in a dangerous chemical factory doing serious manual labor 8 hours a day. He doesn't complain, or skip work.. He's gotten multiple raises and promotions at this job that's he been at not even 2 years. He's that kind of worker. He doesn't nag when I don't clean, or when I don't cook. He babies the hell out of me when he gets home even if he's in so much physical pain that it makes him sick. He's amazing.. Well when I was talking about how I wanted to wake him up he was like aww baby you should have, I would've been completely okay helping you get back to sleep and comfortable, you need more sleep than me right now anyway you're carrying our child. Ladies, it just broke my heart.. I love how wonderfully sweet and caring he is, but I hate that he feels like his wellbeing isn't as important because he isn't the one pregnant.. He feels the need to be so strong and work so hard for us. I just wish I could make him slow down and understand that his health and well being is important too!!
Missy·
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you are so unbelievably lucky.. 😍😭 I feel like I'm gonna be doing this completely alone lol
Jaela·
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My SO is the same way. If I have to wake up to feed Rein he's always telling me to wake him up. I never do though lol, I tell him I just have to pop a boob in his mouth and we're back to sleep no need to wake you, lol.
Paige·
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My boyfriend is the same way. I always try to spoil him as much as possible because I know it's rough on him too. I always make sure to include him in the baby stuff too because it's not just my baby, sometimes to the point where he doesn't understand why I'm always trying to include him lol.
Isha Lena Broadway·
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I'm really glad other moms see what I see... I feel like there are some mom's out there that treat their SO'S like shit and expect them to wait on them hand and food while paying for everything and still expect them to have money left over to pamper them... We truly are lucky to have amazing men!!@yungbae @cubanese @crazytoast and @missyann214 and you are SO strong for doing this alone.. I would completely fall apart, I'm so bad at being alone. girl just know your baby is just as unbelievable lucky to have such a strong willed mommy!!
Paige·
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@littlemissrainesmommy, yeah I've noticed that a lot like sending their SOs out at all hours of the night for food and stuff. My boyfriend is the only one working so I don't expect him to do anything else like laundry or cooking, I'll ask if he wants to help me which he always does without hesitation but I know work is stressful. I know hormones can make us be all over the place but even then he puts up with me knowing that it's just me being dramatic but some of the stuff I've seen people saying I dunno. I just always think about how much I love him and that he gave us one of the best gifts anyone can ever have and I never want him feeling left out. He's worried I won't care about him as much after the baby gets here, but I've told him that's never possible because without him none of this would've happened. It bothers me that society has forced men into feeling like they're not able to be as emotional or loveable as women are.
emily·
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I am so happy that you have a fiancé that you can count on, and that treats you like ALL women should be treated by their men. I am lucky enough to have an amazing guy too. I may complain about him at times but he works all day every day just so I don't have to while pregnant and plans to continue doing so when our baby is born so I can stay at home with him. He never complains and even after working all day he offers to give me a massage or run a bath for me, just sweet stuff like that. It makes me so sad to see girls on here that have guys that are talking about wanting sex with other girls if they're not giving them enough, or talking about how other girls are attractive...just bullshit things that you shouldn't do while in a relationship. Glad to see you have a keeper ❤️
Isha Lena Broadway·
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@emkasting, we got so much! and yes it breaks my heart seeing some of these sweet women going through hell because of the men in their life!!!